Today's world is a "Hi-tech cool Kalyug" where often innocent people are viewed as villians and the wicked ones as heroes [Although being villian is the latest trend ;) ] people do fail to recognize the difference between the original and the fake.
The fact is, inside everyone of us , there are two personalities ... One is the Angel and other,obviously the devil !! Now , it depends on us.. which personality do we actually want to carry !!
Well , one more fact is, too much of formal and philosophical stuff bores people [Just like my above paragraph.. I know ;)]
So then I came up with a new term "Angelic Demon" .. This is for all those who love the show-off business, the butter-spread talks, the overwhelming sweetness etc etc... who'd outside be " Oh wow, Your dress looks lovely ... What a selection of design.. Wonderful color shades...." , and inside "She was looking like a vanity van, wish I could tell her that her dress color got me a headache " :P :D :D ....
(This is mostly done with "The boss ";))
This HAS to be done in today's world .... Its necessary.. Bcoz you cannot stay blunt each and every moment. But this just depends on the type of people you are with. To few persons, you have to be sweet, gentle and polite. But be sure you do not turn out to be "Extra-sweet" , "Extra-gentle" and "Extra-polite" , coz there are high chances that your boss would simply kick you out :P
Similarly, if same scenario repeats with my bestfriend .. I'll give 500 slangs, push her to the change room, and curse her lifetime for wearing something like that :P [N I'm sure she will do the same to me , I've Experienced ;) ]. These are our "Demonic-Angel" category people.
The problem is,we are resistant to people with whom we haven't gelled up ever till now, and so we don't try too... I also knew one such girl in my school days - Aditi.. I and her were cool with each other till 2nd Std.. Just when 3rd std started.. We had an awesome fight over biscuits. She was throwing them on me NON-STOP(Which irritated me like hell !!!!), I told her to stop doing that, I warned her, Scolded her, and at last I pushed her so that atleast by it that stupid girls "fun- of -throwing -biscuit - bits-on-me" stops .
But I didn't know she would be of my breed too ;) ... She pushed me back..And then the cat fight began.... We both had each others nail imprints on our hands. It was literally a furious nail fight [On which right now I can laugh, but I still remember that it had hurt me horribly at that time, I had small nails :( ] The fight ended by the entry of her younger sister scolding me (YES!! Younger sister who was totally tom Boyish !! ) . Her dialogues were " Meri behen ko haath kaise lagaaya .. abhi tujhe theek karti hoon.... ." and she scared both of us apart ;).. Since that day we stopped talking to each other. Entire school knew that we didn't like each other. My friends used to address her to me as "Aditi - your best friend" and laugh at me... And same was the story on her side ....
Many years passed by ...I noticed that she had changed a lot, and turned on to be a pretty mature girl... She had made many close friends, and was sweet to everyone, except me ( It doesnt mean that I didnt have enough friends ;)).. Our 10th Std was going on.One day as usual while returning home,my thinking session was going on. My van wala Rashid uncle gave me a concerned look... n I started narrating him the entire story - "Par meri hi kyu nai banti usse.. Meri kya galti.... Sabki banti hai, Mujhe wo aur uski behen bilkul pasand hi nai hai "... I pity Rashid uncle. He has to listen to my nonsense stories every week. He began saying "Beta, tu baat karna shuru kar. Bas shuru kar. teri usse banne lagegi ... Bas shuru me thoda makkhan maarna zarur". And there was a wide smile at my face.. Entire picture got clear in my head, and I knew what I had to do ...
I returned home and logged into my messenger. Opened her chat. (No chat history till now ;).. So, it was Shubharambh).
Me: Hey hiii...
Aditi: Hiiii....
Me: Nice profile picture , very sweet ... :) [ It was okaishhh photo,but the "makkhan maaring mode" was on]
Aditi: Yours too dear.. Looking cute...
[And there I was ...She replied so sweetly that I forgot all past grievances at that very second ]
That day we had chat with each other for 3 hours.. Sharing each others feelings for being so stupid to fight as that...Laughing about what would be people's reaction when they'll come to know that Sheris- Aditi started talking to each other ;), etc etc etc...
Although the step the I took was almost on fake basis. But unless and until it resulted into success, the fake base was immaterial. I and her won't ever be best of friends, I know. But atleast we'll talk to each other, stay in contact...Sometimes having casual friends is cool too. Sometimes just being sweet works.. (But don't expect it to work everytime, coz people out are very smart, they'll catch you ;))
No matter what happens later, but one should always try to keep the strings attached. Keep good relations with as many people possible. No one is going to get an award by being a ''serious-rude-introvert'', so why not be an active person. So, for all those who were hesitant like me till now, Cut the rope and talk to all your old friends with whom you haven't cared to message or call during all this time. You may not feel very special, but they'd be contented in their heart talking to you.. Make people smile. Make people feel special, which in turn will make you feel special ...
So, a blend of both "Angelic - demon" and "Demonic-angel " should be applied as and when required based on situations ... And for all those who are still looking up for a sign to take a step forward .. Thats what my poetry says , THIS IS IT ....
The fact is, inside everyone of us , there are two personalities ... One is the Angel and other,obviously the devil !! Now , it depends on us.. which personality do we actually want to carry !!
Well , one more fact is, too much of formal and philosophical stuff bores people [Just like my above paragraph.. I know ;)]
So then I came up with a new term "Angelic Demon" .. This is for all those who love the show-off business, the butter-spread talks, the overwhelming sweetness etc etc... who'd outside be " Oh wow, Your dress looks lovely ... What a selection of design.. Wonderful color shades...." , and inside "She was looking like a vanity van, wish I could tell her that her dress color got me a headache " :P :D :D ....
(This is mostly done with "The boss ";))
This HAS to be done in today's world .... Its necessary.. Bcoz you cannot stay blunt each and every moment. But this just depends on the type of people you are with. To few persons, you have to be sweet, gentle and polite. But be sure you do not turn out to be "Extra-sweet" , "Extra-gentle" and "Extra-polite" , coz there are high chances that your boss would simply kick you out :P
Similarly, if same scenario repeats with my bestfriend .. I'll give 500 slangs, push her to the change room, and curse her lifetime for wearing something like that :P [N I'm sure she will do the same to me , I've Experienced ;) ]. These are our "Demonic-Angel" category people.
The problem is,we are resistant to people with whom we haven't gelled up ever till now, and so we don't try too... I also knew one such girl in my school days - Aditi.. I and her were cool with each other till 2nd Std.. Just when 3rd std started.. We had an awesome fight over biscuits. She was throwing them on me NON-STOP(Which irritated me like hell !!!!), I told her to stop doing that, I warned her, Scolded her, and at last I pushed her so that atleast by it that stupid girls "fun- of -throwing -biscuit - bits-on-me" stops .
But I didn't know she would be of my breed too ;) ... She pushed me back..And then the cat fight began.... We both had each others nail imprints on our hands. It was literally a furious nail fight [On which right now I can laugh, but I still remember that it had hurt me horribly at that time, I had small nails :( ] The fight ended by the entry of her younger sister scolding me (YES!! Younger sister who was totally tom Boyish !! ) . Her dialogues were " Meri behen ko haath kaise lagaaya .. abhi tujhe theek karti hoon.... ." and she scared both of us apart ;).. Since that day we stopped talking to each other. Entire school knew that we didn't like each other. My friends used to address her to me as "Aditi - your best friend" and laugh at me... And same was the story on her side ....
Many years passed by ...I noticed that she had changed a lot, and turned on to be a pretty mature girl... She had made many close friends, and was sweet to everyone, except me ( It doesnt mean that I didnt have enough friends ;)).. Our 10th Std was going on.One day as usual while returning home,my thinking session was going on. My van wala Rashid uncle gave me a concerned look... n I started narrating him the entire story - "Par meri hi kyu nai banti usse.. Meri kya galti.... Sabki banti hai, Mujhe wo aur uski behen bilkul pasand hi nai hai "... I pity Rashid uncle. He has to listen to my nonsense stories every week. He began saying "Beta, tu baat karna shuru kar. Bas shuru kar. teri usse banne lagegi ... Bas shuru me thoda makkhan maarna zarur". And there was a wide smile at my face.. Entire picture got clear in my head, and I knew what I had to do ...
I returned home and logged into my messenger. Opened her chat. (No chat history till now ;).. So, it was Shubharambh).
Me: Hey hiii...
Aditi: Hiiii....
Me: Nice profile picture , very sweet ... :) [ It was okaishhh photo,but the "makkhan maaring mode" was on]
Aditi: Yours too dear.. Looking cute...
[And there I was ...She replied so sweetly that I forgot all past grievances at that very second ]
That day we had chat with each other for 3 hours.. Sharing each others feelings for being so stupid to fight as that...Laughing about what would be people's reaction when they'll come to know that Sheris- Aditi started talking to each other ;), etc etc etc...
Although the step the I took was almost on fake basis. But unless and until it resulted into success, the fake base was immaterial. I and her won't ever be best of friends, I know. But atleast we'll talk to each other, stay in contact...Sometimes having casual friends is cool too. Sometimes just being sweet works.. (But don't expect it to work everytime, coz people out are very smart, they'll catch you ;))
No matter what happens later, but one should always try to keep the strings attached. Keep good relations with as many people possible. No one is going to get an award by being a ''serious-rude-introvert'', so why not be an active person. So, for all those who were hesitant like me till now, Cut the rope and talk to all your old friends with whom you haven't cared to message or call during all this time. You may not feel very special, but they'd be contented in their heart talking to you.. Make people smile. Make people feel special, which in turn will make you feel special ...
So, a blend of both "Angelic - demon" and "Demonic-angel " should be applied as and when required based on situations ... And for all those who are still looking up for a sign to take a step forward .. Thats what my poetry says , THIS IS IT ....
Behind all the wrongs and
rights
Beside all the days and
nights
There again starts a new
life, a new day..
A beautiful new morning,
apart from the merry go round till date
That strange stretch line
between faith And fate..
The sweet sound that mellows
you down,that takes you to the world of your own.
An eye on an eye, a life on
a life, may it be known or unknown ..
A spirit to smile, and a
spirit to bring smiles
To walk all by your own,walk
ways and miles..
Cheers to the life, cheers
to the creator of it
To the soul, that knows,
This is it..
Hey sheris... amazing n innovative terms used 2 describe human behaviour... angelic demon n demonic angel...must say u write..describe ... incidents... as if dey r being witnessed right in front......realistic approach in ur writings is evident...
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